Hafsa, eighteen, France.
I contribute nothing to the numerous fandoms I 'belong' to.
Fandoms include but are not limited to: the Infernal Devices, Percy Jackson, Les Misérables, the Hunger Games, Fullmetal Alchemist.

I just found something I wrote like five years ago

OH THE SHAME OH THE EMBARRASSMENT PLEASE LET ME PUNCH MY 14-YEAR-OLD SELF

suluboo:

relationship tip #78: ‘babe’ and ‘baby’ are cliche and outdated. try a fun new nickname such as ‘lieutenant’ instead 

allyouaretomeisdeadskin:

seriously such a great idea

hanae-ichihara:

N O R A G A M I

Episode 12. (END) 「一片の記憶」 “Scrap of a Memory”

timmarcoh:

wait so if roy calls riza his queen and calls himself the king does this mean he ships riza with himself

If you wanted to do something absolutely honest, something true, it always turned out to be a thing that had to be done alone.
Richard Yates, Revolutionary Road (via quoted-books)

ruinedchildhood:

Mom: Home in 5 minutes, hope you’ve taken the chicken out of the freezer

Me: image

  • grandmother zhang: frank is too american
  • grandmother zhang: i'll call you fai
  • grandmother zhang: *has daughter named emily*

returquoise:

When you try to think of a word and can only remember it in another language.

raddestbabe:

everyone’s having their mid-life crises at like 19

So I saw a post about how friends shouldn’t tell a person who has a mental disorder that it’s hard to care for them/be their friends, because it might make the person feel even worse.

And that’s just bullshit.
Your friends are not tools you can use to get better. They are living beings like you, they have their own problems, and they have the right to be annoyed or angry or frustrated.

how to decode a person with an anxiety disorder

theinformationdump:

ohmelodypond:

lundibix:

This is by far one of the most important things I’ve seen on tumblr because It describes things I was not able to

things we are trying to do all the time:

  • 1. be safe

things we can’t help but do all the time:

  • 1. second-guess ourselves
  • 2. behave impulsively and reactively
  • 3. take everything personally
  • 4. worry
  • 5. worry
  • 6. worry
  • 7. have difficulty accepting compliments
  • 8. have difficulty reciprocating friendly gestures
  • 9. have difficulty finding the courage to respond
  • 10.  have difficulty not being suspicious of others’ intentions
  • 11.  make a huge deal out of the smallest thing

things you should keep in mind:

  • 1. we’re scared of everything
  • 2. pretty much all of the time
  • 3. it’s an actual disorder
  • 4. it manifests as impulsive behavior
  • 5. you can’t fix us with words
  • 6. telling us “worrying is silly” won’t make us stop worrying
  • 7. it’ll only make us feel silly
  • 8. and then we’ll worry even more
  • 9. “oh god, am i worrying too much? what if she calls me silly again?”
  • 10.  like that
  • 11.  also, we wear a lot of armor
  • 12.  cold, heavy, affection-proof armor with spikes
  • 13.  we constructed this armor as children
  • 14.  we’re fairly certain you will never be able to pry it apart
  • 15.  but there is a nice person under there, we promise

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ihavewaytoomanyfeels:

ikenbot:

freeselfdefense:

Rape Escape

  • Easy and very effective
  • Requires nothing but your body
  • Includes attack

Very useful to know, pass and share please.

Hopefully nobody will ever have to use any of this, but honestly, I can’t stress enough how important self defense is.

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